Thursday, December 13, 2007


well the snow has come to ny and lots of it. I love the snow and it looks so nice and i dont want to go out in it right now till it is warmer out.
the kids are all home and i am trying to get things ready for the family party that was not going to happen this weekend. It is going to be next weekend because of the storms. well that is that i am all done shopping and i might still go out and get one or two things for my husband. well that is all for today love live and laugh....

Thursday, November 29, 2007


hello all i am back could not remember my password to get in so i will write more.
boy life is good. kids are all doing good and husband is good and i am trying to get rid of a lot of things in the house and get ready for Santa and baby Jesus so that is that. talk to you all later love to all.......

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Situation Sunday ya baby

Situation # 1

You are in the service. Stationed over in Iraq. Some one in your group gets shot by a missile. The missile goes into there midsection and pierces the guy. It is sticking out in the front and the back of him. The guy never looses conscience, and pleads for help. The rules are clearly written out in black and white, if this ever happens do not go any where near them- treat them as if they are dead already. There is the possibility that more could die if near him and it goes off-- What do you choose to do.

I would try to help he put his life on the line for me and my country now it is my time. So many people would look the either way not me. And if it was my time to go then let us go together.



Situation # 2
You have been chatting awhile on line, at one of the numerous dating sites. You think you have met Mr. or Mrs. Wonderful, your soul mate. You are about to meet at a very nice restaurant,after 7 months of deep serious chat. When you get there you realize that your date is a Siamese Twin. They are attached at the head. One is facing one way, and the other the opposite. What do you do?

I would make believe you have the wrong table and call one of your friends to come and treat her to dinner really fast.


Situation # 3
One of your siblings or a close friend is constantly doing things that really bother you. They at times act like the superior one, and tell you what to do. Or they will try to keep something of importance a secret from you finding out. This is beginning to take its toll on you and you are almost at the point where you want nothing to do with them. How do you handle it and what do you do?

well I would not have anything more to do with them. Right them off don't communicate with them and just move on with your life and just don't wast your time with her. She has had far share of things that go wrong. what comes around goes around. How will people learn if everyone just tip toes around everyone. What are we telling our children that anyone can walk all over us and we will not care no i take my stand and i move on to tell my kids people can be really mean and it could even be family. so life moves on and i will still love that person but will not talk to them..

Saturday, September 22, 2007


well have not been on line in a little bit but now i am so that is up in the either world i live in? I am working now and i get really tried at night so i don't go on line but i will try to. Well i just found out after 2 weeks that my sisters son was in a car accident and she didn't tell me. She is very different and i really don't know what to think of that . My husband thinks we or i should not have anything to do with her. I always looked up to her and now i don't want anything to do with her. she is not like she was before i moved here. So i will not talk to her and maybe someday she will really know what is going on in my little brain. What would you do if she keeps things from you like when my dad was dieing and she didn't tell me till the last 2 weeks of his life not really cool. well that is that and now i will move on and really love my family that i see all the time...

Sunday, September 2, 2007

Situation Sunday

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Situation Sunday #22
Situation 1}You have won tickets to Dr. Phil. or Oprah. To discuss what is very important to you,,,What do you discuss?
Can you talk about it live on TV?....If it meant you will win 1/2 a million to discuss?

I would talk about my love for my family and how were so close but so far apart. life is so funny some times when you think you got it all going on you really dont know what why your going..so do i win

Situation 2} You are out shopping in a neighboring city. You are at this stop sign where it seems stuck on red. As you look around at the surrounding area....you notice your spouse's in law leaving a motel room with their boss. Do you tell your significant other,,,or your in law...or do you pretend like,,,the character in Hogan's hero....Shultz....I hear nothing,,,,I see nothing! ..What do you do?

with me i would go up to them and say hi how are you are you coming over with your husband for dinner on sunday or are you bringing your friend..



Situation 3} You are out on a date with someone that you like,,but yet you do not really know them. You are out on their boat on the ocean....they accidentally fall over, you reach for the life ring to throw to them,,,{ life ring= floatation device}..it does not reach them. You not knowing how to swim,,,,what do you do? the boat radio was never a option,,,it was never hooked up. You also have no cell sevice.....What do you do?


go in after them and bring the life ring with you and swim back to the boat and make love. sounds good to me..

Saturday, August 25, 2007

life


Life is a bowl of spilled milk on your freshly mopped floor. Life is “growing up” your children and struggling to grow with them. Life is wrapping your arms around your husband when he becomes unlikable. Life is hurting for your children when they’re disappointed. Life is holding back tears and smiling when you’re down. Life is not looking down at someone else when you’re up. Life is waking up to a brand new day and living that day to it’s fullest – hoping for a tomorrow – but living it in such a way as to not be quite sure it will appear. Life is good.
Love is cleaning up the spilled milk and holding your temper. Love is understanding and patience with your children’s growing pains. Love is often laughing and crying at the same time. Love heals little boys skinned knees and teenage daughters broken hearts. Love is a friend who knows all your faults and still loves you. Love is a gift to be received and an even better present to give others. Love is good. I am still in love with my husband after 23 years ...
Life is so good.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

I am back


Well have been so raped up with the summer have not had much time to talk.
I have been having a really good summer. The kids are doing good. and i am going to sleep here are some pix for you all to look at..

Saturday, July 28, 2007

spaghetti

For several years, a man was having an affair with an Italian woman.
One night, she confided to him that she was pregnant. Not wanting to
ruin his reputation or his marriage, the man said he would pay her a

large sum of money if she would go to Italy and secretly have the child.

If she stayed in Italy to raise the child, he would also provide child support

until the child turned eighteen. She agreed, but asked how he would know

when the baby was born. To keep it discreet, he told her to simply mail

him a postcard and write "Spaghetti" on the back. He would then arrange

for the child support payments to begin.



One day, about 9 months later, he came home to his confused wife.
She said, "You received a very strange postcard today."

The wife watched as her husband read the card, turned white

and fainted.



On the card was written:

Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti.

Three with meatballs, two without. Send extra sauce.

Sunday, July 8, 2007

Situation Sunday #14






Situation #1: A friend or family member has moved back home. Close to you now. They have purchased a puppy that is a pure breed, from a local. You have found out that the puppy is stolen. The true owners have offered a reward...the puppy belongs to their dying child. You know the puppy is in good hands,,and that the new owners children are now attached....what do you say or do?

I would give the puppy back my kids would understand and I would get a neather one that day..




Situation #2: You have been dating this person for a while. You love them and they have asked you to marry . As you are working out the final arrangements...your intend to be tells you....That they have had a sex change operation and that they are so glad that they decided to do it---How do you react,,-what do you choose to do next?

no wedding.




Situation #3: You have been offered by Time Life {magazine}, to take a year off from your job and get the full amount of your pay. Plus your job is held for you till you come back. All you have to do is write about your your thoughts, and what ever you feel. You are given 2 choices of where you can do this--on a deserted island { all food and necessities are provided,,,but you are alone} or Anartica, if you choose the artic you will get a bonus of $10,000. Which do you choose? { For the detailed...you have shelter, no electric- no human contact till the year is up. What do you choose? Why? And what will you write about?

I would choose the island in the antartica . would bring lots of paper and pens and matches and a fishing net and pole. My pillow and sleeping bag and cloths and that is it . I would have no thought about it growing up poor so i would make the best of it ..

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Situation Sunday

Situation 1:




You are on a small plane, there is you and you get to choose one special person, and 3 strangers. Also 2 pilots are on the plane. It is at night, during a very bad storm. Unfortunately the plane hits a lot of turbulence, and the controls are not working....no radar screen is showing up for the pilots. Try as they might, they have no control of the plane and it is about to crash. The pilots both did not make it. You have and your complain, also 2 of the other passengers. You all are bruised up pretty badly but no broken bones. It is night so you just stay put. In the am you realize you are on a mountain, way in the woods. No cell phones are working......What is your next plan of action?

I would find the black box that will tell people where you are and there might be a phone in the box 10 to 1 there is. I would get the emergancy flairs out 5 of them to be exact and if i see a plan go by i would use it..

Situation #2
You are at work, you have 2 other co-workers there doing the same job as you do. One of the other co-workers have used the company computer to look up a union question, that the boss already has told you the answer to which is totally different from what is on the screen. They leave it on the screen and move away from the computer. The boss finally See's it and asks the person who did it, if they were on the computer and left that there. They total deny it, making it look like you or the other Innocent one did it....what do you do? and could you trust that person?

I would tell the truth and let that be..and i would call my union rep to help me out.
Iwould not trust no one and only look out for me having a faimly and kids to feed my job would be the way i would feed my kids..

Situation #3
It is now graduation time. Your eldest child of 16 is graduating high school, and they ask you if they can have a party with about 50 close friends. You agree as long as there is no alcohol drugs on the property. You and your spouse go out to dinner as the party is a hour into it and only 10 people are there. You come home to a couple hundred kids, and already two kegs of beer have been kicked.....what do you do?

#1 i would call the police.
#2 I would have the people of the house take all the blame
#3 My kid would be up shits creek
#4 If you have good kids this would not have happend.
#5 Graduation is a time to be with your kids and not to pown them off on some one else.

Friday, June 15, 2007

andrew and amy at prom

Appetizer: Fill in the blank: The best thing about where I live is


____________. The best thing about where I am going to move to this week is that is i will be close to my sister h



Soup: Create a new name for deodorant. Like "Flower Fresh" or "Shower scent"

My new deodorant is love life

Salad: What was the last piece of software you installed onto your computer?
How to make a will



Main Course: If you were to receive a superlative today beginning with " Most likely to..." what would the rest of the phrase say.
Most likely to give the best care to the geriatric. With skill and knowledge, she goes beyond the call of duty, and bring happiness to those on their last journey in this world. ok stole yours could not think;;

Dessert; What two colors do you like to wear together?
You would think Green and yellow
Happy Fridays Feast All!! And to all a good night

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

gas any one


in one end and out the eather but not this way..Gas is so much now i just payed 309 and i think it sucks. so what can i do not a dam thing so i will live with it . I just cant go to bingo as much, that was a thought not. Well One kid is home now from school took him to the dentist and to the eye dr today. He really wanted to go fishing but could not till the little ones come home so they are home not and he is in here saying can we go can we go can we go.Ok have to go fishing now love life..

Monday, June 11, 2007

new day..

well school is out tomarrow for one of my kids oh no.
He is going to want to go fishing everyday.
He loves to fish he is going to be 17 years old soon and
just loves to fish everyday.
He is atistic and this is something that keeps him very exited
and will do anything to go fishing.
Well my son that is in MN is still having fun.
He is going to come home on Sat if he doesnt find a job today
so i hope he doesnt . Is that selfish of me or is that just a mom
that wants all her kids under one roof.
I have been so tierd tring to pack and get all the stuff ready to move
it is no fun at all i have so much stuff and i want it all.
Well that is all for now talk to you all later god bless
live life and love your self....

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Situation Sunday


Situation #1
You are back in the dating game, after 20 something years of being married. You are in your 40's. You meet some one you really like, and have been on a few dates....you really like this person. When do you tell him that you have a "problem"...A disease that effects you. It is not contagious...PKD,,,A kidney disease where you kidneys are enlarged and keep pushing forward,,and cysts that keep recurring in four major organs? You feel healthy and all, but at times it is a major setback? When and how do you let them know about this "baggage"?

I would tell him on the the first date. If he really cares he will stay around if not dont wast my time...


Situation #2
A couple that you have known, and dealt with the past 15 years. Very nice people that have adopted a mentally challenged boy. They rented this house for the past 45 years,,{they now are in their late 80's},their adopted son lives in a separate apartment. They have just been told that their landlord has died and a distant relative now owns the place and gives them a order to vacate. They have 2 months to find a place to live. They are heart broken. And cannot afford today's rent of $2000 a month. How do you help them?

I would get a traller and let them live with me on my land. I know what it is like to have a son with mentall challenges and would help them out. life is to short for them and to have that on there plate would just be more truble then good.

The next situation....is just made up.
Situation #3
You have just been told by your doctor that you have a very rare disease, you blood can only flow to one extremity,,,your arms or your legs. You have to choose which ones, the other shall get amputated....which do you choose?

I would choose my legs to go i can eat and have a good life still with no legs but take a way my arms and i would not be able to do much for my self..

Tuesday, June 5, 2007

at the petting zoo


we went over the weekend to the petting zoo and it was ok not the best place. I love going to zoos.the best zoo is the bronx in ny i love that zoo and the zoo in central park is really nice. My son andrew is in Mn and i miss him already only gone for a week and miss him already.he called for money today i told him to get a job..he will be home in 3 weeks or so. well that is that not much going on in my head today. love life and your self.,.

Sunday, June 3, 2007

and us now

look at us which one am i ?

went to the petting zoo

"Situation Sunday"

Welcome again to "Situation Sunday".



1} You are on a hike with 5 other friends. You come to a bridge over a ravine, The bridge is made up of 2 ropes and wood planks. Two of your friends have already crossed and are on the opposite side, you go to cross and the rope on the left breaks away from one side, and then breaks away from the right side on the opposite end, what do you do?

try to hold on for dear life and hope your friends will help you. If your friends dont help bye bye to me.

2} A person you have been dating along time, or your spouse decides that they need more creativity in the bedroom. Where do you draw the line from kinky to totally far-fetched?

well i would try anything once and if it is not what i want i would talk to him. being mariied for 23 years takes skill.


3}You and your spouse have separated after a rather lengthy marriage/relationship of 20 years. The other party was at fault. You have always gotten along with the "in laws", to the point that they have made you a Godparent. Now after the split, you become the bad one to most of them. If there was a significant death of a close in law, Do you attend the funeral?

Yes i would because i have grown to love them too. It is not there falt that we are not together any more and that if we have kids i would want to take the kids to the funeral and my self . Life is to short to not do what you want in life and so be it..